his means that real love—whether romantic, platonic, or self-love—should uplift, encourage, and help you grow into the best version of yourself. Love should be a source of strength, not something that drains your energy, diminishes your self-worth, or makes you feel trapped.

A healthy love makes you feel valued, respected and understood. It challenges you in ways that inspire growth, not in ways that make you doubt your worth. If a relationship constantly leaves you feeling exhausted, insecure, or unworthy, it’s not love—it’s a burden.

𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐬. It builds you up, celebrates your achievements, and supports you through your struggles. It’s not about perfection but about creating a safe space where both people can thrive, not suffer.